Rules You Will Abide By And Understand!
 


REALIZE Professional Dominatrix are NOT Prostitutes; if you think we are then it would be advisable to make sure your hospitalization is paid up. Pro- Dominatrix are in the business of fantasy realization and do not have sex with their clients. They are a cross between a psycho-dramatist and therapist. A Dominatrix , skilled enough to realize a living in the profession, earns every penny she makes. She must be confident enough to intuit and focus on the needs of many different personalities and strong enough to pull off scene after scene with expertise and finesse. For any dominant, this is a terrific strain. Having to do so many times each week narrows the field of capable Dominatrix considerably. I ask that you be descriptive in you wants, fantasies and desires due to the fact that not everyone is into the same fetish. What you like, the next person will not.

KNOWLEDGE - Be sure to study my website, observe what I do, be sure we are compatible ahead of time. If you don't understand something then by all means ask. When calling be sure you are calling for the right reasons generally about information or scheduling. If you do not understand what BDSM is and what a Professional Dominatrix does then let me suggest you alleviate your ignorance PRIOR to contacting me. Get a book, do some research, but by all means don't look like a fool when you spout off things you know nothing about.
POLITENESS - You must be extremely polite. This is especially important as you do not want to offend me, who you are later going to trust with your well-being. Moreover good manners make a slave much more appealing for the Mistress.

NO PHONE SEX - Do NOT call me for free phone sex, you will only insult my intellect. I will be able to tell by the tone of your voice and your demeanor what you are doing and I do have caller ID.

QUESTIONS- You will have to answer questions I ask, or you won't get a session with me, I will be able to tell whether or not you are legit, because I've dealt with the scene and submissives for many years. Do not see this as an invasion of privacy, but rather as a way for me to understand you better. The better I understand you, the better quality of session you will have.

DISCRETION- Always be discrete when in the local of my presence or concerning us. Don't show up for a session in full drag unless you have already confirmed it with me. Alert me to situations where discretion calls (i.e., you do not wish email to come to a certain address, no phone calls etc.) Do not leave my number lying in your wallet for the wrong person to find and inquire about.

LAW ABIDING- You must be a law abiding citizen in order to see me, I would never have in my company, a man or woman who is not a law abiding citizen of our society. Again, if you do not understand what kind of person visits a Dominatrix then do some research, they are NOT criminals, sex offenders or sexual predators, they are men and women in high standing of our society. People who hold various types of professions, including, but not limited to congressmen, preachers, police, fireman, attorneys, doctors, successful dentists, nurses, college professors, IT professionals, construction workers, and possibly you if you are worthy of serving me.

DIRECTIONS-  Please give me good detailed directions to our agreed upon location way before the appointment.

LIMITS - Respect my limits. These limits include no direct sexual contact and NO sex, period. This includes you offering me oral sex (it won't happen so don't even ask). No body piercing, Scat, or blood sports. If you seek sex of any nature then seek a Escort not a Professional Dominatrix.

COMMUNICATE - Openly and honestly about your desires. I'm very open-minded and will not shy away from your fantasies and welcome them. This is one of the few places where you might have the chance to play out some of your complex and sacred fantasies, so try to communicate as completely as possible in describing what you are looking for. Keep in mind that the clearer a picture you can give me about who you are the better chance you have of finding a perfect fit.

PHYSICAL RESTRICTIONS- Tell me about any physical or emotional limitations you might have. Contacts, bad back, bad knees, asthma, epilepsy, heart conditions, recent injuries or illnesses are all things I need to know before you arrive. These limitations will not turn me away, but make me respect you for admitting your limitations in advance rather then during "our time" together.

PERSONAL HYGIENE - Now do I really need to tell you about this or how rude it is to not practice good personal hygiene when coming to your mistress?

NO DRUGS or ALCOHOL - They do not mix well with safe s/m. Please show up in good condition. Have some Gatorade and a light meal before your scene (especially if you are doing bondage).

PROMPTNESS - Always presume I'm busy, if not more so, than yourself. My lifestyle is both complex and involved. Be on time with both your confirmation and your appointment. If you are going to be delayed or need to postpone, let me know a.s.a.p., I will appreciate your call and if you do not you most likely won't get another opportunity to schedule. I would no sooner disrespect you by not letting you know if something came up then I expect you to do to me.

SAFE WORDS - I use them and be prepared to use one. A safe word is sometimes your only responsibility in a scene, use it to communicate when you have reached a limit.

FANTASY - Don't expect fantasy and reality to be the same. They rarely are. Open yourself up to a new and wonderful experience. Enjoy the unexpected.

PENIS ENVY - Don't get caught up in your penis. Realize that the beauty of S/M is that it moves on many levels and in many directions, it effects your intellect, your entire body, your heart, your imagination, your psychology and is truly multidimensional, don't limit it's magic.

TRUST - Me and let me be in charge. This is your opportunity to let go of all the roles you maintain in the "real" world and let someone else run the show. Loosen up and allow your mind and body to get taken in all sorts of directions for a set period of time. Your external responsibilities are lifted, you get to interact in very sacred and profound ways, explore new and hidden parts of yourself.